Book Review: Tickle My Tush: Mild-to-Wild Analplay Adventures for Everybooty.

I seriously want to apologize to Dr. Sadie Allison for not getting this out sooner but damn, have I been super busy lately and I also started working again so I haven't had much free time. More on what's been going with me laters but now Book Review time.

Sooo a couple of months ago I was asked to review a copy of  Dr. Sadie Allison's book called Tickle My Tush: Mild-to-Wild Analplay Adventures for Everybooty. 

Ummm of course I accepted because being a fan of Anal Sex.....I was super curious.  This is literally the first anal book I've read. 

So first a little bit about the author.  According the her website, Dr. Sadie Allison is a Doctor of Human Sexuality and member of the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors & Therapists (AASECT).   She's the CEO of Tickle Kitty, Inc., as well as author and publisher of today's most popular line of fun, informative, how- to sex-help books. 

So what did I think? Well I found the book to be very informative even for someone like me who thought I knew pretty much everything I needed to know about Anal Sex.   The book itself is a quick read, not a huge book with lots of overwhelming pages or medical terms.  It's pretty easy to understand.  Reminded me of one of those Sex for Dummies books.  But this book was very informative yet in a fun way.  It has cartoons, it's easy and just fun!    The book covers everything to how to get started, hygiene, toy play and just about anything you've ever wanted to know about anal sex. E V E R Y T H I N G ANAL!  Don't believe me, get the book here. 

I mean just look at the Table of Contents and you'll get an idea of what is covered. 

Table of Contents

1. Butts up?
2. Frequently Assed Questions
3. Safety First
4. Heinie Hygiene
5. Backdoor Anatomy Map
6. Sensual Booty Massage
7. Fingerplay
8. Lick-O-Lingus!
9. The Art of Penetration
10. Orgasmic Spotplay
11. Hot Butt Toys
12. Strap-on Seduction
13. Positions of Pleasure
14. Frequently Assed Questions 2

Unfortunately for me, I haven't had much anal sex lately.  But with the help of this book, I am slowly and patiently trying to get the hubs to like it and actually do it. Excuse me? You wanna help? hahahaha!  Not but seriously I've even contemplated giving him the book but I am not sure he's ready for that yet.  LOL   But Chapter 11 helped alot!!!   Meeeoww!

Okay so maybe Anal Sex isn't your thing which is a mystery to me and if you get the book, perhaps it will become your thing...lol but anyways just so you know Dr. Sadie Allison has other award winning books covering all sorts of other yummy topics.  Did I mention how I love the names of these books. Check them out.  You can read excerpts on some of these BTW.  Tickle His Pickle: Your Hands-on Guide to Penis Pleasing , Ride 'Em Cowgirl! Sex Position Secrets for Better Bucking , TOYGASMS! The Insiders Guide to Sex Toys and Techniques and Tickle Your Fancy: A Woman's Guide to Sexual Self-Pleasure .

Dr. Sadie Allison.... again my apologies for not getting this out sooner. xoxo

TMI Tuesday-Love, Hate, and Guilty Secrets. (I forgot to post on Tuesday!)

Today’s fun TMI Tuesday questions were submitted by Jz from “A Reluctant Bitch” blog. Enjoy!

Love, Hate, and Guilty Secrets.

We never mind telling people about things we love or hate, but how about the things we love, but would hate for anyone to find out about?  Well, it’s time to free yourself of that fear!

For each of the categories below, list one thing you love, one that you hate, and then, take a deep breath and tell us something you hate to admit you love. Really. You’ll feel better for it!

1. Food
     I love: Pizza, Pasta, Pop Corn, Stacy’s Pita Chips, BBQ,  Homemade by me cookies, cakes, brownies,  apple pie with Ice Cream, Watermelon, fresh fruit smoothies, Peruvian Food, home made soup, breakfast, rum, margaritas, wine…… I could literally keep going…I love love love food. 
     I hate: Liver, Tripe-YUCK! and super duper fishy stuff.
     My guilty secret is: Croissants, Crackers with some yummy cheese spread or preserves, snicker’s bars, hot fudge sundaes with nuts from McDonald’s or home made. 

2. Apparel
     I love: V neck t-shirts, soft jeans, sneakers, converse shoes, scrub pants with the string, fitted tank tops front clasp bras, cute panties, sandals with tall wedges.
     I hate: Business apparel,  uncomfortable shoes, turtle necks.
     My guilty secret is: no clothes. When the hubs isn’t home, I walk around completely nude.  He hates it because he says people will see me from outside but I don’t care.  I feel incredibly comfortable. 

3. Books
     I love: Loved the Twilight Books.  I totally got into it.  Mystery murder books and John Grisham law stuff I liked too.
     I hate: I wouldn’t say Hate but I just couldn’t get into Harry Potter. I also could never really get into the Oprah Reading club…Although I love Oprah, some of those books were boring.  
     My guilty secret is: reading erotica, Playboy, Penthouse.  True story, I was like 7 years old when I first found my dad’s Playboy and Penthouse magazines.  I loved looking at the pics.  Years later like when I was 15, I found the magazines again and would read the stories.  I was super virginal so I didn’t get a lot of the terms but the stuff I would get would turn me on A LOT.  I still like reading erotica but now it’s mostly the blogs and well my stuff from the past gets me wet…meow!

4. Songs
     I love: Literally Anything.  I love it all.  Pop, Alternative, Salsa, country, Rap, Hip Hop,  World….even some metal.  If it has a great beat…I love it!
     I hate: Well okay I don’t like Gore, heavy Devil screaming metal music, I also go nuts when I hear electronic music.  Too much of it-drives me nuts.
     My guilty secret is: I have no secrets with me and music.  If I like it, I’ll admit it. 

5. Movie
     I love: The Godfather 1 &2, Good Fella’s, Casino, The Departed, Scarface, When Harry Met Sally, The Shawshank Redemption, Cast Away…….OMG I love movies all types too! 
     I hate: Gore Scary movies…the Hills have eyes or something like this.  I hate when men dress like women, with the exception of Ms. Doubtfire.  The parody of Scream and I know what you did last summer---blahhh! I hate stupid slapstick comedy…STUPID!
     My guilty secret is: Gone with the Wind, The Apartment, old black and white movies, Tom and Jerry old school cartoons-not the new ones….Old ones with big band and classical music.  Love love them! 

6. TV Show
     I love: A lot of shows on the Food Network, Old episodes of The Office, Smash, Friends, How I met your mother, Big Bang, Mad Men, Dexter, Shameless…wow, Love a lot of shows….
     I hate: Shows that make young people look like fucking idiots which are most of those shows are on MTV.  I hate Teen Mom too! Blahhhhh, nothing like glorifying teen pregnancy! No thanks!
     My guilty secret is: I really tried not to watch but there’s something about the Housewife of NJ, OC, and Atlanta that makes me wanna watch. 

7. Celebrity Crush
     I love: Nick Lachey, Rick Schroder, Jake Gyllenhaal, Ryan Reynolds.  Something about them….YUM!
     I hate: Ummmm don’t really hate anyone. 
     My guilty secret is: Chef’s Bobby Flay & Michael Symon. Porn Star: James Deen…hmmmm~

8. Music Group
     I love: Wow…seriously how could I pick?  Too many to choose. I Love Music!  Mostly 80’s and 90’s bands is what I like.
     I hate: Gore-Mega Devil music.
     My guilty secret is: NKOTB, boy bands…Hahahahaha!!!

9. Sports Team
     I love:  Miami Heat BABY!!!!!!
     I hate: The Miami Marlins can suck it!
     My guilty secret is: From time to time, I will check how the Arizona Suns are doing.... 

Bonus:

Sex Position or Sex Act or fetish
     I love:  I love it all.  But I love it when its crazy, unrestricted, long lasting, unrushed, what-ever goes, kissing, grabbing, touching, screaming, laughing, top, bottom, biting, hair pulling, sometimes rough, sometimes sweet, sometimes you control me, sometimes I control you….Just make sure to call me your good girl.  This drives me insane!  
     I hate: Restrictions.  I’ve been told too many times that I am too loud by the hubs and I hate that he cums too fast.  I’ve been actually getting off after he cums and goes to bed because right when I’m just warmed up, ready to cum…he comes.  We talked about that and he started the questions which distract me too much by asking every second, “did you cum?” “Did you cum?” He doesn’t do it all the time but when he does it fucking pisses me off.   I have told him not to do it but he still does it because he says I never say it but when I do cum, he doesn’t believe me.  I also hate to announcing, I am cumming.  I love being told to cum but he won’t do this.    The other thing I don’t like to get spit on.  My hubs did this once and I didn’t really like it.  Like to get my pussy wet….first of all, my pussy never needs lube but he did it and I didn’t like it at all…I guess it was the way he did It.  Yuck!  It was a total turn off!  

     My guilty secret is: I think about sex like 98% of the day.   I may not always be in the mood either but one little thing sets me off. I do play everyday.  I watch porn.  I also love phone sex.  Him listening to me cum…hmmmm!  The camera...ohhhhhh? 

How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!

Happy TMI Tuesday!

TMI Tuesday-Sexual Desire

This week’s TMI Tuesday questions focus on sexual desire.

1. Answer the question: What makes you hot?  Words, Images, sounds, my imagination(yeah its dirrrrty) and my dreams (yeah they are dirrrrty also!). 

Love this!!!

2. What is it that you want, when you look at porn?

a. To feel happy
b. To learn
c. To relax, relieve tension
d. To orgasm

I guess I would have to say all of the above. 

3. You’ve been asked to be a part of a porn movie production. Which job will you do? Why did you select that?

a. The star of the porn film–Doug Hardwicke or Fachina Istite
b. The director–staging the scenes and directing the actors, lighting, camera shots, etc.
c. The fluffer–you’re in charge of keeping the actors “excited” about their work
d. The camera person getting all the tight, up in there, close shots

Hmmmmm, this is a very interesting question.  I think for sure B because I have ideas on what I want to see on camera but when I get out of control, I don’t mind being the star for the right person.  Hahahaha!

4. Right this very moment you are horny and are looking for a casual hookup for sex. Under which, of the following headings, would you place your ad?
(w=woman, m=man, t=transexual/transvestite)

w4m, m4w, m4m, w4w, t4m, m4t, w4t, t4w, t4mw, mw4t, mw4mw, mw4w, mw4m, w4mw, m4mw, w4ww, m4mm, ww4m mm4w m4ww, w4mm

Well I don’t just do casual hook ups unless I know the person soooooo I guess it would be….Dude I’ve know for a while, please call me.  But for TMI purposes I would most likely say, W4M.  

5. From now on, ’til the end of time you will be able to experience sexual pleasure via a single method. From the list below, choose that method. Why did you make that choice?

a. Vaginal penetration
b. Anal penetration
c. Masturbation with your fingers/hand
d. Masturbation with a single favorite sex toy. What is the toy?
e. Being masturbated (e.g. fingered, hand-job) by the fingers/hands of another person
f. Body Touching from another–full body massage, caressing, kneading, licking, sucking, biting, etc but no insertion of anything in any orifices.
g. Oral sex

This is horrible even crazy to think about this question because I get off by feeling all. I love a,b,c,d,e,f,g……. A LOT!!!!!  I guess if I can just have one…..I would have to unwillingly say A, because I would want all the others.  Why? Well because I love feeling A. 

Bonus: What’s the sexiest thing you did this past weekend? Got any pics or a vid? ;p

Ohhhhh I took pictures alright!!!!   And I was very sweaty, tired…..Oh yeah baby….it was also hot…very hot.  And I felt sooo sexy…..what did I do?…..hmmmmmm…..ohhhhhh!

Meooooooooowwww!   Well I went to a crazy bootcamp at the park.  Yeah and it was horribly hot and I looked horrible in the pics but seriously who cares what you look like when your getting your ass kicked! Then that night when I felt sore, tight and I felt the muscles in my legs, arms and abs from all those killer exercises….ohhhh, I just loved it.  And yeah, I felt very sexy.  Meow! 



Seriously!!!!!



How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!

Happy TMI Tuesday!



Sooo what's been going on.....

Soooo what’s been going on? A lot I guess.  I really haven’t shared much of my life on the personal side right? What's up with that you ask?  Well it’s not like I don’t want you to know or anything like that because a few of you friendly blogger friends have reached out to me and I’ve spilled the beans on what's been happening but maybe for me, writing it all down and sharing it to the blogger world has been a bit difficult.  I even contemplated shutting down my blog for good because I just didn’t feel like writing anymore except for the occasional sex toy review and TMI’s.  It just wasn’t fun for me anymore.  I thought why keep it just for that? This blog was supposed to be for me to share my inner thoughts and  I do have too many thoughts, too many feelings, worries going on in my head which truth be told do not allow me to shut it (my blog) down because I need to somehow express them all.  The more I thought about it, the more I felt like NO Fucking way will I depart with blogger.  I mean who else can I talk about sexy shit or just the normal (normal for us) crazy feelings one has that would not sit well with your friends and family?  I don't have many friends like you folks out there. You know what I mean I am sure. 

I guess I would have to mention that before I would tell Arizona what I was feeling and it was nice to have that one on one support, the non-judgment, the friendship and a lot of lusting over each other but as you all know from the last personal post, he and I no longer have that type of relationship.  I mean we don’t have much of a relationship anymore.  A passing by is more like it now.  And yes, I do get a lil sad still…. after months of us not speaking on the phone and a couple of emails because I do miss him a lot and although he might not know this, his friendship and what-ever else we had meant so much more to me than I even realized myself.  I honestly didn’t realize how much I missed him until we stopped talking completely.  I mean I was crushed and I wished we had never had stopped talking to him.  Even though it was the right thing to do speaking truthfully.  It’s weird and crazy for me to say this because… yeah, okay... we never met but he was just sooo damn likable and when we spoke it was like talking to me sometimes.  We were different in many ways don’t get me wrong but the vulnerable stuff, the stuff we wanted out of a relationship was on point.  The sexy stuff...WOW!  He got me, I’d like to say I got him but what I loved the most was that he was super into me in a way that I never experienced.  We didn’t fuck so I knew he wasn’t into me because of this.  We had shared many pictures, many inner thoughts, emotional stuff.    He was positive, supportive and just a dream dude. Sometime I think, maybe it was just us.  Maybe we were this dream for each other.  A made up crazy fantasy dream to each other.  Maybe we were both just two crazy people who would not get along in real life but wanted to like each other sooo much and gave each other so much attention to each other we had this crazy beautiful dream fantasy about each other made up in our crazy minds.  Maybe I am the one who liked him more than he ever did me.  Maybe since I was going through my own crazy separation with the hubs and crazy Alex, I leaned on him more that I should’ve.   I don’t know.  The thoughts of what we had or what I think we had… destroy me sometimes.  Sometimes I love what we had even though it was really nothing…but we did have amazing lunch time conversations.   Anyways I guess after so much time has passed, you just have to completely let go even though it’s been hard. I know, I must totally sound like a crazy women but OMG emotions are fucking funny sometimes.    

Soooo what else could I say.  Ughhh!  I guess it happened and I am super happy I met him. But anyways.....okay!  Damn…I just ramble and ramble don’t I?

So anyways, the last time I shared a piece of my life, a lot had happened.  A recap. 

The hubby and I were doing better which is still the case till this day I am super happy to report. Things have been better than before.  Alex was kinda trying to squirm his way back into my life.  I mean I do miss him but I don’t miss the drama he came with. He's a fucking package deal.....and this makes me stay far away from him to answer your question because I know many of you have asked me why I don’t just give him another shot. Give him a shot with at least with the fucking only but see....Alex and I can't be Fucking Only!  Alex, although amazing in bed and a very nice guy, I mean I can't lie...he is a totally nice guy... well when he’s not being a smart ass-asshole.  But with that Alex has recently confessed to me that he still has feelings for me.  He tells me that he moved back home and that he’s working on his marriage so he wouldn’t try anything sexually with me because apparently he's super happy at home again but that he would like to stay as friends and hang out from time to time.  To me this means, he wants to be booty partners and I just can’t do this with Alex.  Too many feelings are there.  Too much pain, too much drama between with us.  I don’t know.  No wait, I do know-I fucking can't.  Another thing is that I can’t resist him.  I can’t stop myself with Alex.  I know this now-I can admit this.  He plays mind games with me.  Of course I know this after the fact. After he gives me the sob story and I think about what he just said for hours.  I think, Fuck,  why not have lunch with him? Hours later I think,  WOW WTF am I THINKING having lunch with him?

It's hard because I do kinda see him in passing at the gym and because of a fucking groupon, Alex even joined my boxing gym.  Yeah FML.  So I see him from time to time.  I avoid him as much as possible but when we do chat, the sex flashes in my head.  Bits and pieces of us back at his apartment.  Him going down on me, him fucking me from behind, him throwing me on the couch and just doing what-ever....ahem, ok you get the picture right?  I mean really, how can I not think about this? Can you blame me? But I know where this stems from. Explain I shall!

Okay so fine, things with the hubs and I have been great!  Honestly, I have my friend and hubby back.  He’s super different.  He loves me.  And he's been trying alot. Like he shows me that he loves me a lot.   He's no longer super negative, depressed or stressed all the time.  This is pretty much the hubs I met years ago.  Now I can’t say that I 100% trust him because I still sometimes think that he’s going to turn into the depressed hubs like before. My bad for thinking this but fuck, like I said before emotions are fucking funny.   I’m also not as loving as before. I know this about me.   I notice that most of the time, he’s the one asking me for the hugs or kisses. I am colder.  I can admit this.  Don’t get me wrong, I have become my playful, loving self with him again but I don’t know…..sometimes I notice that I am very cold with him.  I want to be left alone. I want to get away. I need space. I want to just be alone with my thoughts. I want him to leave to work so I can fuck my toys.  I guess old habits die hard and this is one that he gave me because we spent so much time apart or maybe this was always me.   I mean the hubs has always been great about giving me my time and I love this about him but we have been more together than we have been in years.  Which isn't bad don't get me wrong but sometimes I get that OMG, I feel suffocated feeling.    And yeah I want to be bad. I want to have secrets. I want to fuck around.  I want to be bad Carolina.  I also think about how I got to this place.  I remember the pain I went through.  I think about how I cheated.  I think about why I did those things.  I don’t regret them but I don’t necessary think it was wrong anymore as before. I think maybe some people need more.  I think about how when I was fucking Nick, it was pretty great.  No emotions.  I would get what I needed and I was on my merry way.  I think about the beginning of me and Alex...how I fucking loved it.  I just didn't like the drama and that's where we fucked up big time.  I got what I needed, sexually....before the emotions got into the way.  Before I needed both and that's where things went fucked up with Alex.  I even loved the phone sex with AZ but then I don't know, it just got way too emotional.  But I guarantee if we lived closer, for sure I would have fucked him for sure.    But I know for sure fucking him would've brought many consequences for both because we were so emotionally connected.

Where am I going with this you ask?

Ummmm, I think this is a good time to say.....to be continued........

7th Sex Toy Review!

    
Not sure if you recall me mentioning that I now work with EdenFantasys to write Sponsored Posts.  Well to refresh your memory, you can read about that right here. 

So look how cool.... for writing that piece, EdenFantasys graciously sent me a gift certificate to EdenFantasys.com to get what-ever I wanted.  You heard me, TO GET WHAT-EVER I WANTED!!! OMG, the possibilities were endless.  I had received another gift card month’s ago so with this one, I had a little over ninety bucks to spend. 

I had considered getting a few sex toys.  Like another vibrator, another glass toy maybe or perhaps finally get some of that sexy lingerie.  I've wanted a corset for a while and they are reasonably priced too.   Hmmm! I didn't know. Like I said, the possibilities are endless because I don't know if you know....but EdenFantasys’ website has a lot of sexy stuff to choose from.

But then a good friend on blogger land mentioned to me how much she loved her vibrator and then another blogger friend told me how much he loves to use the same type vibrator on his wife when they are getting it on.  What vibe is this? hmmmmm? I was curious! So I looked it up....the Lelo Gigi.    So I looked into it and apparently this is the Cadillac of all vibrators. When I goggled it, on the Lelo website it’s labeled as the “The World's Bestselling G-spot Vibrator.” I thought, Oh shit, the world best? I wonder if my G-spot would consider it the world’s best!

Then I went to the EdenFantasys website to check the reviews and well it has awesome reviews and the Lelo brand is super popular too.  They have a wide selection of the Lelo products BTW. 

What the hell, I ordered it and it go to me super quick too which was awesome.  I got the Rose color one. See picture below, yep that's it!

Okay so let me give you to low down.  This sex toy is excellent and looks beautiful. It comes in a really nice black classy box with a black satin bag for storage but I haven’t had in storage very much if you get the hint.  Hahaha!

The Lelo Gigi's material is a soft silicone and has a flatten shape top-- perfect for....ummmm, stimulation.  It has a strong vibe depending on the setting but it’s not too loud which is awesome because I hate a loud ass toy. Plus I usually play after the hubs goes to sleep so I need a quite toy.   The best part of this sex toy and not sure if you will agree with me on this but…are you ready for this?? àThis toy requires NO BATTERIES.  Yep, it charges for up to two whole hours…..and for the sake of testing they toy properly…..I  have proven this many-many times...it works great!!!! hahahaha!  You just plug, charge and play!   MEOW!    And it charges quickly too which is a plus.

So some specs on the Lelo Gigi…It has seven power levels speeds and five vibration patterns.  You have lots to choose from; Escalating, Pulsating, Rollercoaster, Vibrating.  It vibrates slow-medium-fast pulse..ummm, trust me you won't get bored. I like it on straight fast or medium vibe but sometimes I go for the Pulse or the Rollercoaster setting.   My clit loves it.   

The controls are built in and I love that it has other features like that it locks so there won’t be any accidents when traveling with the toy and when the battery is running low, there’s a red light indicator that comes on to let you know it’s charging time.  I love it. 

Now there are only a few things that I don’t like but trust me they are very minor but what kind of review would this be if I didn’t share it with you sexy folks right?

Anyways some of issues that I see are that the built in controls sometimes get in the way.  Like every time I insert the toy, I touch the controls in error and it will change the vibration setting. No biggie but still worth mentioning since it’s happened to me several times. I wish the controls were lower.  Another issue which isn’t a biggie but more like awwww, that sucks…. the toy cannot be used in the shower.  It’s easy to clean but be careful.  Another thing is I do wish the toy was bigger.  Like thicker and a little longer. I know I am asking for alot but shit this toy is awesome "as is" but with these changes, it would be mind blowing......Oh, Sizing info here BTW.  

Okay one more thing, the toy is a little on the pricey side. It’s way cheaper on the EdenFantasys website of course and if you buy it when there’s a EdenFantasys Promotion, you’ll luck out which is what I did.  Always check back on my blog because I have a banner that always has the latest promotions for the website or just check the EdenFantasys website.  Items go on sale all the time.

Currently one of the promotions is 20% off for their sexy lingerie selection for men and women so maybe I will be getting my corset after all.  Meeeeoooowww! 

So would I recommend this toy?  HELL FUCK YES! Get it, it’s worth it!  You WILL NOT be disappointed.  Now of course if this isn’t the type of sex toy you like, the EdenFantasys’ website has something for you TRUST me! 

Okay so just to make sure we follow the rules....“A gift card was provided to me free of charge by Eden Fantasys in exchange for an unbiased review. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.”

TMI Tuesday-Blast from the past (Yeah I am late but what the hell!)

This week’s TMI Tuesday consist of questions pulled from various TMI Tuesday posts from the year 2010.  If you played with us back then and already answered these questions, feel free to reproduce your answers. It’s fine, there are a lot of new TMI Tuesday players. Of course, things have changed over time so you could give all new answers to the questions, too.

The link after the question, is the URL of the blogger that created that TMI Tuesday question(s).

1. November 23, 2010 – Have you ever shared sleeping accommodations with someone of the opposite sex without anything steamy happening? (http://www.playfullyyours.blogspot.com/)

I’ve been around guys, more than girl friends my whole life so yeah; there were times in High school when I did take naps with a really good friends of mine.   There was one friend in particular.  For years during the summers we napped together.  We would hang out playing basketball, soccer or going to the pool and we would take naps after at his house.  Like we wouldn’t plan it but we would kinda fall asleep watching movies, listening to the radio or watching TV.  Ahhh I miss the 90's.    He lived right next to my grandparent’s house where I would literally live during the summers so hanging out in his room was like nothing to me.  His parents worked so it was just us kids.   My grandparents would literally die if  they knew I was in a boy’s room alone.  They always thought I was hanging out with his sister who was originally my friend until her twin brother and I became super close.  I was such a tomboy back then so I kinda got tired of talking about boys and doing girly stuff so her brother and I became good friends since we had more in common.    This was way before I was devirginized so for me it was like I was taking a nap with a friend/brother/cousin.  It’s crazy funny because we would always either spoon or wrap our legs together.   Years later he confessed to me that he always thought we were going to do it because I would literally give him a hard on when I backed my ass into his crotch but he was a virgin also so he literally didn’t know what the hell was happening to him.   Hahahahahaha.  I was literally sooo innocent back then. I wonder if things would be different now.....ahhh, don't answer that! hahaahaha!

2. November 9, 2010 – When it comes to swinging or partner swapping, which would excite you more, watching or being watched? (virtualsin.wordpress.com)

I don’t know that I would like either.  I have started to do both and I could never finish it.  Just the thought of some other chick on my man’s dick would send me over the edge.  I am kinda territorial with cock.  Hahahaha!

3. November 2, 2010 – Would you vote for a candidate caught in a sex scandal?
(virtualsin.wordpress.com)

Hell Ya…why not.  I mean it depends..no sick shit but if it's like a Bill Clinton thing,  I mean I don't care...so he likes to fuck…who am I to judge.  

4. October 11, 2010 – Do you masturbate to porn, and if so, what is your favorite genre? (virtualsin.wordpress.com)

I kinda watch for inspiration…and then I get so turned on that I play.  I like watching couples, girl on girl, boobs…… but I am super picky.  I hate cheesy.  I hate fakeness.  I hate hard core hurting kind of porn…you know like stuff that looks like it just hurts.  Example: The guy is fucking the shit out of her and she’s yelling like he’s killing her.  I don’t find that sexy at all…Ughhh.  I like the kind of porn sex that I would like to have.  

5. September 7, 2010 – What are three mistakes someone could make on the first date with you that would automatically make you turn down a second date with them? (http://www.pleasure-principle-hedone.blogspot.com/)

1. Talking on your cell, IMing, facebooking/twitting, playing words with friends….you get it right?  Shit if I can be off the phone which is hard because I am always on the phone, you can also. If you need to be on your cell, you should’ve stayed your ass home. It’s all about respect.    
2. Being rude.  I strive to be courteous being that I worked in retail and in restaurants so when I see someone purposely being rude because they feel they are better because you never had to work minimum wage….blahhhh date is over.  No more dates ever!!!
3. Being rushed.  I hate hate hate to be rushed so unless you have a curfew or have to check in with your parole officer, umm which would not be acceptable either…hahahaha..... don’t fucking rush me.  I understand a lot but just to rush through dinner because you don’t want to chill and hang out is totally unacceptable. I had a date once rush me only to go sit in his car and talk shit.  Ummmm we could’ve done that in the restaurant.  And no I don’t put out on the first date which he knew so I was sooo pissed.  I never saw him again. 

Bonus: Is your sex drive in park, neutral or over-drive. Explain.

It’s been on over drive for a while….years!  Sometimes its neutral but lately I have been super out of control.  

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I'm okay!

I know you've been wondering where I've been.  I don't know but I just haven't felt like writing about my life lately which is crazy because so much has happened, good things-nothing too dramatic. I mean I even have a sex toy and book review to write that I just haven't been in the mood to write....yeah I've been blah!!!! 

Anyways last month, I’ve had high moments and low moments too. 

So in order to be brief and to the point--- high moments were:

• My birthday!  Yeah! Umm, if you want to send me a gift...let me know...hahahahaha j/k!
• Ran my first 5K...yeah!!!  10K in May!
• Received a new sex toy that I will be reviewing very soon....

Also the hubs and I have been doing well.  It's been calm...no drama, no craziness. He's been totally different and we've been having more good times than bad.    The sex is still okay.  I mean------- truth…its gotten better but it’s still not mind blowing.  He’s more free which is good but if I want it more than two days he still questions why. I know Freaking Madness!!!   I’ve accepted the fact that the hubs and I sex drives will never be on the same level.  But this is another topic which I will chat about that later. 

Ummmm on the other hand, Alex has kinda reappeared again.  No way, not in that way!  More like I've been trying to avoid him at all cost but unfortunately since my birthday and the fact that we go to the same gym, he's started to call me again.  He’s only called a  few times almost like forgetful of how we ended things the last time we spoke. He also mentioned to me that he ended up getting back with his wife and he is dead set on the fact that we can now be "friends only" because according to him,  he's trying to work things out with his wife and he is well behaved now. Yeahhhhh, I know better.....so every time he's called me, he's invited me to lunch or dinner.  Yeah he's nuts.  I mean, I think he's just been talking shit and I think he knows I am going to say no, but he hopes I’ll say yes. I don't hear from him everyday, it's only when I totally ignore him at the gym and he called me for my birthday.  The last time we spoke he said he wanted to take me to lunch since he was in my area. I told him to leave me alone and I guess that worked because I haven’t heard from him again.  Crossing my fingers. 

 Soooo low moments were........

Well I guess I will just say it….. AZ is no longer in the picture.  I won't get into the dramatic details because it seriously hurts to talk about it but we both kinda decided to give it a break amicably. I mean we’ve emailed here and there but nothing like before and we haven’t talked since which sucks.
Sometimes I think it’s the best thing for the both of us but as each day passes, I miss him more and more.  I mean it was a good 6-7 months where we were literally chatting and e-mailing everyday.  It’s hard because sometimes I believed that the final outcome would have been finally meeting up and not even just for sex but for like I don’t know to finally meet, but I guess right now the stars are not lined up for that.  

I do miss him and when we stopped talking it felt as if I was a bit empty.  I mean it’s been hard because I did consider him a good friend and it’s amazing to have someone to actually be honest with.  Someone who knows the secrets and was there for you during the craziness and shit------ but life is crazy and sometimes it doesn't end up the way you want or think.  Anyways that's all I am going to say about that. 

So there is sooo much more to chat about......but for right now-that's it!  I hope everyone is doing well.